ADDRESSING SCHOOL CONCERNS THRU RESPECTFUL COMMUNICATION

September 15, 2024 Educator's Corner

Imelda H. Marilao

In today’s digital age, it’s become increasingly common for parents to voice their concerns, complaints, and frustrations about schools and teachers on social media. This trend can create a public spectacle, often driven by the desire to feel vindicated or to “get even.” While airing grievances online may provide a sense of immediate satisfaction, it can also tarnish the reputations of educators and institutions, often without a fair chance for resolution or dialogue.

Social media platforms, while useful for sharing information and connecting people, are not designed to solve complex issues or facilitate constructive conversations. Instead, they can amplify misunderstandings, escalate tensions, and involve people who may not fully understand the situation. This can lead to a disproportionate response, with negative comments and unfounded judgments spreading rapidly. Ideally, concerns about a child’s education should be addressed directly with the school or teacher involved.

This approach allows for a private, respectful exchange of information and perspectives, making it easier to understand the nuances of the situation and work towards a resolution. When parents bring their issues directly to educators, they open the door for constructive dialogue and mutual understanding. It also helps maintain a positive and respectful environment for all parties involved, including the students who are ultimately affected by these
discussions.

While it’s natural for parents to be passionate about their children’s well-being, it’s important to approach such situations with a sense of responsibility and fairness. We move with care, driven by a desire to settle issues through respectful communication. Before turning to social media, parents should consider the potential consequences of publicly airing their grievances and whether it is the most ethical and productive way to address their concerns.

They should regard teachers and schools with respect, recognizing their crucial role in their children’s lives. Tarnishing the reputation of educators and institutions not only undermines the hard work of those dedicated to education but also creates a negative atmosphere that can impact students. Direct communication with the school not only respects the professionalism of educators but also sets a positive example for children in handling conflicts and issues.